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Why You Need to Stop Talking Shit About Yourself

August 5, 2025 | Renée Fishman

You might think you’re venting, keeping it real, or motivating yourself to change. But your shit-talking is doing more damage than you realize.

Filed Under: Coaching, Habits Tagged With: identity, incantation, language, mantra, meaning, self-talk, words

How the Background Soundtrack Influences You

May 20, 2025 | Renée Fishman

You might not think much of the music or chatter in the background, but it has a bigger impact on your stories and beliefs than you realize.

Filed Under: Habits, Life, Productivity Tagged With: beliefs, conditioning, habits, music, noise, self-awareness, self-talk, soundtracks, stories

A Radical Way to Change Your Self-Talk

March 23, 2025 | Renée Fishman

The questions you ask yourself create your thoughts, even when you’re not aware of the questions. Here’s a radical way to change your default question, which will change your entire experience.

Filed Under: Coaching, Habits Tagged With: behavior change, habits, mindfulness, mindset, personal growth, primary question, questions, reframing, self-awareness, self-talk, thoughts

What Your Self-Talk Reveals About You

February 15, 2024 | Renée Fishman

Have you ever listened to the way you talk to — and about — yourself? And have you taken the time to investigate the source of those stories? Here’s what your self-talk reveals, and how to reclaim your narrative.

Filed Under: Coaching Tagged With: awareness, beliefs, conditioning, creating awareness, habits, inheritance, mindfulness, patterns, personal development, self-awareness, self-talk

How to See Your Progress in Your Self-Talk

November 10, 2022 | Renée Fishman

When it comes our self-talk, most of our progress can’t be measured by conventional standards. There’s no metric for the quality of your thoughts. Sometimes it takes a big moment to realize how far you’ve come.

Filed Under: Coaching, Practice Tagged With: ADHD, compassion, emotions, meditation, personal development, planning, practice, self-awareness, self-talk

3 Tips To Changing Your Negative Self-Talk

July 9, 2020 | Renée Fishman

Changing our negative self-talk is one of the hardest habits to break. Here are 3 tips to help you get started.

Filed Under: Navigating Change, Productivity Tagged With: behavior, change, habits, self-compassion, self-love, self-talk

Why It’s So Hard to Change Your Self-Talk Habits

January 23, 2020 | Renée Fishman

Self-talk is one of the hardest habits to break. This metaphor helps explain why and offers a clue for how to change our self-talk.

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: breaking habits, environment, habits, music, patterns, self-talk, voices

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