The art of listening is really the art of helping another person hear themselves.
3 reasons why we hear the same message differently help explain why messages you think are common sense aren’t getting through.
Stanford: Before I tell you, you have to promise not to judge. Carrie: Do I judge? Stanford: We all judge. That’s our hobby. Some people do arts and crafts; we judge. — Sex and the City If someone called you judgmental, you might reasonably infer they didn’t mean it as a compliment. But why? Definitions […]
Go into any conversation knowing these two things and you’ll be ahead of the game. Plus, advice-givers will be grateful to you.
In an era where we compare our follower counts and influencer rankings, it’s easy to forget about the power we can have when speaking with one person.