The first step to increasing your visibility is simple, and also the hardest. Here is how you unconsciously avoid taking it.
You can find confirmation for any reason you have to avoid what you’re avoiding. Your reason may even be legitimate. And here’s the tricky part: it can also be resistance.
On the surface, it would seem that avoidance tendencies strip you of control. On closer look, you’ll see that everything you avoid gives you a certain type of control.