We often think of the discipline involved in taking consistent action to nurture growth. But there’s another side, and an unexpected discipline required to achieve true growth.
The Receptive Nature of Structure
Most traditions think of structure as the yang, or masculine, aspect in the structure/flow dynamic. But structure has a receptive quality to it.
When the Distraction is the Destination
The walls we put up to protect ourselves against distraction can keep us isolated and lead us to avoid what really gives life meaning.
The Difficulty of Not Doing
Doing less in a world that tells us to do more can feel uncomfortable. Restraint can also be outside the comfort zone.
When to Hold Back From Helping Others
Sometimes taking action that you believe will help others actually interferes with their growth. Holding space for the unfolding of others is a crucial skill for all leaders, including parents.
The Discipline of Restraint
In a world that values doing, it takes strength to practice non-doing. This is the discipline of restraint.