You can find confirmation for any reason you have to avoid what you’re avoiding. Your reason may even be legitimate. And here’s the tricky part: it can also be resistance.
How Perfectionism Can Sneak Up On You
Even when you know it’s a possibility, perfectionism can sneak up on you through the back doors of indecision, overwhelm, and the pretense of building skills. Here’s a real-life case study of how the cycle can unfold.
What’s Hard vs What’s Uncomfortable
When you find yourself avoiding something, distinguishing whether it’s hard or uncomfortable can help you find the right strategy to get through it.
Venus Conjunct Chiron Teaches How to Heal Your Deepest Wounds
Your deepest wounds swim below the surface and play an outsized role in driving your actions and behavior until you embark on healing. Venus and Chiron teach us how to heal.
Venus Conjunct Neptune in Pisces Invites You to Dream Big
Dreaming big can feel unrealistic and indulgent, but it can also give us crucial information that can set us up for living more aligned with what we truly desire. In this way, momentary escapism can be highly productive.
The “Good Trait” That May Actually Be a Trauma Response
Being cooperative, deferential, and accommodating are often praised — especially in children. But these behaviors and attitudes can also be signs of one of the lesser-discussed responses to fear and trauma.
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